In adult films, sex toys are very popular. In real life, it's a different story. Not all women have fun with vibrators and things like that. However, that doesn't mean that no women use them. According to 2010 statistics from TheirToys.com, 44% of women between the ages of 18 and 60 have already used a sex toy. That's almost one in two women. The statistics don't say if all of these women were single, but there are probably some who used one of these devices when they were in a relationship. We don't want to alarm you, gentlemen, but your spouse may have one. Who can tell? Maybe she's even shown it to you already?
Some men may be afraid that one day they will become obsolete and be replaced in whole or in part by one of these silicone objects. To reassure you, we'll show you five sex toys popular with women, and most importantly, what to do to avoid being replaced by these (even if it's unlikely to happen).
1- The vibrator
This is undoubtedly the most popular toy. Very reliable, and offered in different sizes, the vibrator offers a lot of freedom to the lady. She can choose the speed and vary the pressure.
How to react: You can play with the intensity of the ratio. Start slowly and gradually increase the pace. You can return to softness before you start again fiercely. You can also change positions and ask her what she likes best.
2- The "bullet"
It is a small vibrator as big as a thumb and sometimes reminds you of a shell. It was designed to stimulate her "bean", which can allow her to reach orgasm in a fairly short time (obviously, it can vary from one woman to another ...) .
How to react: Instead of wanting to take off your panties and climb on her, take your time. Make your hands wander. Some powerful bullet vibrators here. Go between her legs. Don't hesitate to make her languish. Take breaks. When you feel you've made her wait long enough, go ahead with your hand or your tongue.
3- The "rabbit"
It is a vibrator with two "rods": one to simulate the "coffee bean" of the lady and the other for the G-spot. It is therefore more intense than a normal vibrator.
How to react: Instead of always concentrating in the same place, vary the pleasures. Don't be afraid to stimulate two places at the same time, both during foreplay and during the act. Best jack rabbit vibrator guide here.
4- The dildo
Sometimes women also like simplicity. That's where the dildo comes in. It's the closest thing to a man's body. But then why would she use that? Simply because she can control it, which is a little harder with you (unless she's chained you up like a beast, but that's another story...).
How to react: Try to get her more involved. Ask her if the intensity, movement or depth is right for her. Maybe she was just too shy to tell you about it before.
5- Lubricant
Okay. It's not a real sex toy, but some women like to use it when they're alone.
How to respond to that: You can simply ask her if she wants to use one during intercourse. At worst, you can go shopping at a sex shop. You'll find all sorts of products made for couples, such as chocolate showers or massage products that smell like fruit. It might spice things up for your couple!
Final note:
Remember though that just because you've found a sex toy in her dresser doesn't mean she's not satisfied. Maybe she just wants to explore her body and find out what kind of stimulation she prefers.
Of course, you've just been shown how to "respond" to a sex toy, but really, we just wanted you to see the discovery of a vibrator in a more positive than negative light. In short, we wanted it to lead you to ask yourself questions about what goes on in the bedroom at night and see if you could bring a little spice to your relationship.
In fact, if a woman were to actually replace you with one of these things, it would probably hide a much deeper problem in the relationship (either coming from you or her). After all, it's a bit unhealthy to prefer a rubber object to flesh...
