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好多單對單約會同Speed Dating客人平時唔太識同異性傾偈,搞到俾人覺得好悶,今次請來首次亮相嘅HKRD心理治療師Kerwin,同我地用心理學方式教大家如何變得有趣啲!


Yubi黃嘉如表示有三成客人同佢傾訴,表示自己唔識開話題,有時佢地怕講錯說話,又或唔識對方範疇驚唔識答。Kerwin表示悶蛋一係唔講野,一係就講太多,令人冇興趣。有趣嘅係,後者竟然係佔佢咨詢人數多啲。大家如果唔想俾人悶感覺,都要聆聽多啲對方。


如果遇到唔認識嘅題目,你可以虛心啲問對方,例如點解有某樣興趣、學咗幾耐或平時喺邊度學等等。Yubi表示切忌一唔識就閃過話題唔俾人講,呢個係最差方法。人一定係傾自己最擅長最感興趣話題時最樂意分享,各位單對單約會同Speed Dating 客人留意喇~


如果大家真係天生比較唔識說話,Kerwin建議平時大家可錄低自己說話,睇下自己有咩微表情同說話內容可改變。到約會當日,大家可留意下自己說話比例,男女比例從六四至五五都係可接受的,太多就唔好喇。傾偈時大家可由近傾至遠,由餐廳討論至興趣等內容,都係比較舒服的,各位單對單對單約會同Speed Dating客人加油!

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